‘Delay’ speaks about how ‘My Perfect Funeral’ show became reality

● Deloris Frimpong Manso

About a month ago, we featured the story of Benjamin Aidoo and how he became part of popular television series ‘My Perfect Funeral’ available on on­line video streaming service ‘Showmax’.

This week, the focus is on Ms. Deloris Frimpong Manso, the Creator and Executive Producer of ‘My Perfect Funeral’ who delves into the production of all 10 episodes of the show and how “ner­vous and worried” she was in pitching the concept to the channel.

‘My Perfect Funeral’ is a Ghanaian docu-reality series that goes behind the scenes of planning a proper Ghanaian burial.

She spoke to Showmax about her challenges and what is next for her in the Ghanaian film and television industry. Here are extracts:

My Perfect Funeral is really a one-of-a-kind show that has never been done before. Were you nervous when you were first pitching the project to Showmax?

I was nervous and a little bit worried. I wondered if Showmax was going to be interested and if I’d actually get families who would be ready to allow us film them while they grieved.

What was your reaction when it was commissioned for production? And did you feel any kind of pressure going into production?

I generally had mixed feel­ings. I was excited when the show got commissioned then it hit me that it was about funerals. And there was also a little bit of pressure because I wanted to make sure that we got it right. I was already thinking about Season 2 and wanted to make sure that once we started, we stayed on top of our game so that the show kept running.

You’ve worked on a cou­ple of TV projects before, like your talk show The Delay Show, Cocoa Brown and Afia Schwarzennegar but this is your first reality series. How does it feel?

Working on a reality show was new ground for me, and this being a one-of-a-kind show was even more thrilling. The best way to express my mood at the time was what I used to tell my team: “All hands on deck guys!”

And of course when I drive past the billboard in town, I sometimes don’t know if I should smile or cry. It’s all so surreal.

How long did it take to film My Perfect Funeral, from pre-production to finally premiering on Show­max?

We started filming in No­vember of 2021 and the show premiered in November 2022; that would make a year.

How did you and pro­duction come to choose the families you’d feature on the show? Were there any criteria to it?

We opted for diversity. From the affluent to the not so rich, and of course funerals from different parts of the country with different cul­tures.

Any challenges you had filming the show?

Our first challenge was when we flew the crew to Kumasi, paid for their hotel rooms and car rentals and all that because we had the bereaved family’s approval to film them, then the head of production called to say that the family had changed their mind.

Apparently a family mem­ber who came from the US wasn’t informed about the shoot. I remember spending two hours on the phone trying to convince them but to no avail.

Then there was the biggest challenge when our first production team, director and editor backed out of the production. Their reason was that the show had begun taking a toll on them emo­tionally.

Which was the most chal­lenging funeral you had to deal with?

The funeral at Pusiga. The team had to fly from Accra to Tamale and travel six hours by road. We had to get them se­curity to escort them because ‘it wasn’t so safe’ to travel on those lonely roads at night. Michael, our producer, came back with fever blisters and the ultimate, COVID-19.

By Spectator Reporter