Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am a 27- year-old young man, active in church and a member of many youth groups. Due to my dynamism in church and the community, many people like me and l have made a lot of friends.
I am in love with two beautiful girls and would like to settle on one of them to marry.
My problem is the two ladies have good character, well-mannered, courteous and hardworking.
I have held myself back from having an affair with either of them since the youth have been advised to refrain from pre-marital sex.
How do l select between the two ladies who are not aware that l am interested in them and closely monitoring their conduct and activities.
Francis, Accra.
Dear Francis,
Being a dynamic young man will automatically attract scores of beautiful ladies to be in your company at all times. This requires that you deal with them sincerely and eschew immoral acts.
I commend you for being humble and eager to learn.
Note that time is the best judge and this will definitely help you in making a good decision. With time one of the ladies will back out to enable you to assess the one who is left very well
Alternatively, you can pay unannounced visits to them and learn a lot to do your assessment.
Having done all these, do not forget to pray for God’s direction.
