Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 27 years old, unemployed and got married six months ago. Though my husband has got a job, his meagre salary can barely sustain the family for a week and things are going bad.

A few weeks ago, my ex-boy friend who treated me badly and almost succeeded in pushing me into the grave, told me that he had got a job for me in his father’s factory.

l rejected the offer outright, having considered the humiliation, pain and maltreatment my ex-boyfriend had meted out to me resulting in the abrupt end of the relationship.

However, when l recollected the toil my husband went through to keep the family going, I eventually decided to accept the offer in order to save the family from disgrace.

Should l accept the job or could this cause me a serious problem?

Ama, Kumasi.

Dear Ama,

This offer could cause a problem in your marriage if care is not taken. Your former boy friend could be looking for an avenue to entice you into his arms once again.

Moreover, your detractors could use this opportunity to tell lies to your husband about things they have not seen or heard.

Though your former boy friend could use this opportunity to appease you for the wrongs he had done against you, his brilliant idea could change to envy because of your past relationship.

Kindly turn down this offer to save your marriage and  trust in the Lord for another opportunity will knock on your door.