Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am a 22-year old University student. I dated a 35-year-old man who took advantage of my innocence and has suddenly become too busy with me. 

I got fed up with him ignoring me so I stopped checking up on him like I used to. Eventually, I asked for a break up but he took my words for a joke but I have since moved on to start a  new relationship.

I found out after we broke up that he had a 10-year old son. He is now apologising and wants me  back. I love my current boyfriend and wouldn’t want to hurt him. What should I do?

Tasha, Madina.

Dear Tasha,

It appears you are quick to start a new relationship hence your decision to end the relationship with your former boyfriend. Better still, you don’t have to bother yourself too much over your ex-boyfriend. 

He was not truthful to you and you deserve better. He may hurt you again if you return to him. Focus on improving your current relationship and don’t repeat the mistakes you made in the past.