How to love a woman who has been through rough relationships (final)
Show her love
They say that love can heal all things. That doesn’t necessarily have to be true for everybody, but you could give it a shot. You have to be able to show her that she can still believe in love. You have to show her that despite her fears and apprehensions, your love for her is always going to win out.
You have to be able to convince her that love isn’t something that has to be feared, especially when it’s done right. You have to make her believe that the love that you give her is the kind of love that isn’t going to hurt her – the kind of love she can trust.
She is still going to try to push you away a lot. And that’s okay. You just let her do so. It’s giving her confidence in herself. She is showcasing her courage and bravery. And once she sees that you’re resilient enough to stay despite her best efforts, maybe then she will grow to trust you.
Be persistent with your love
But that only comes with time. So that’s why you have to be patient with her. You have to be persistent. You have to be willing to grind it out. And even though you might scare her at first, she is going to become acclimated to your presence in her life slowly. And then she’s going to let you in.
And it’s going to get to a point where she won’t feel worthy of your love. And you have to convince her that she is. You have to convince her that her wounds are her trophies; that her scars are her medals. You have to convince her that her brokenness is what makes her beautiful.
You have to convince her that despite her damaged self, she is still a woman worthy of true love. And you’re the one who has to give it to her.