Dear Obaa Yaa,
We started our relationship on a lovely note, got married and some friends wished us well on our marriage journey.
With time we had two lovely children who are in the lower primary school and make our lives interesting and give us much joy.
Unfortunately, the quarrelsome behaviour of my wife is pushing me against the wall to take an unacceptable decision by terminating the marriage.
Though I am a quiet person who will hardly be heard in the house let alone meddle in the affairs of other people, my wife is always picking up quarrels with others, a situation which is causing me disgrace and making me feel uncomfortable.
Having had enough of the disgrace, l am contemplating quitting the marriage but will not allow her to take the children from me.
Do you consider my action to be appropriate?
Kwabena, Accra.
Dear Kwabena,
It is unfortunate that your marriage has reached this stage and it is forcing you to take a decision which will likely affect the well-being of your children.
No matter the problems, children suffer in diverse ways when marriages break up.
I will advise that you keep your calm in the face of the challenges being posed by your wife and avoid taking decisions which will rather cause more problems in your family.
Getting your pastor to talk to your wife will help bring a lasting peace in your family.