Dear Obaa Yaa,

Nobody can tell what the end would be that is why I try my best to tolerate anyone who comes my way but it seems most people turn to use my leniency for my weakness.

Reminiscing the memories we shared together always gives me goose bumps and this has always been a blast from my past. How I wish we were still together but the harm has already been done.

I loved this girl with my whole heart but all this while she took me for a joke. I was later informed by a friend that, my girl is cheating on me with another guy which I didn’t want to believe be­cause I trusted her so much.

Rumours about her cheat­ing on me kept making waves as days elapse to the extent that I was advised by my par­ents to quit the relationship but I never listened.

Out of the blue, my girl­friend introduced me to her guy on my birthday which al­most got me to lose my sens­es. Currently, I am okay but the thought keeps coming to mind and makes me miss her. What should I do to get rid of this because, I don’t want to go into that situation again

Samuel Sawovi, Koforidua

Dear Samuel,

Well, the game is over with this particular lady, al­though it is normal for you to keep missing your ex-partner. Try to move on.

Doing that would require you to keep busy with produc­tive activities like sports and make new positive friends. Do not try to console yourself by entering into a new relation­ship.

Use this time to build your­self and prepare for you will surely find love again. This time when everything goes well it will stay. Good luck.