Dear ObaaYaa,
I am married to a businessman who travels the length and breadth of the country, meeting business partners and always making efforts to increase his stock of goods.
His insatiable desire to become one of the richest businessmen in the country has led him to make more enemies.

He has made money his best friend and excluded everything and has even refused to take interest in me, his wife.

Though l have made my concern known to him, l am not happy because he seems not to be bothered about it and is still going about his business.
How I wished he was around me always, especially when l need him more to fill the vacuum in my life but it is not so.

Unfortunately, a friend proposed a gentleman to me who would keep me company and this has ended in a deep love between us and i find it difficult to stop this.

What should l l do to stop this relationship?

Aku, Kumasi

Dear MaameAkua,
Though the Bible enjoins one to work hard in order to earn a living, one is supposed to do that in moderation by taking into consideration other factors.

Your man cannot give any excuse for the total neglect of his family and solely depend on his business to the detriment of your marriage. He should remember that he has no authority over his body likewise you.

You should once again attempt talking to your husband and let him understand the harm that he is causing to you.

There is the possibility that he has a secret lover or lovers who might have been comforting his bed on his numerous travels and he does not see the essence of satisfying you at home.

Alternatively, it could be that your husband is deeply engrossed in his business and has, therefore, relegated other interests to the background.

As a wife, you should stop the relationship with your new-found lover who has taken over the place of your husband.

Though your husband is not playing his marital role well, this should not give you the privilege to take another man so long as you remain married to him.