Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 22 years old and deeply in love with my boyfriend who is 25 years old. Secondly, my brother suspected that my lover had moved with many ladies but l did not believe this initially.

Though he is a very loving and caring person with whom l would like to spend the rest of my life with, there were moments l had entertained fears my future plans with this gentleman could fizzle out due to his behaviour.

A few months ago, some friends of mine saw him travelling out of Accra with a different lady. Though he had informed me that he would travel, he fell short to disclose to me details about the trip.

Upon investigations, l discovered that he had travelled with the lady. Though he had denied when l first confronted him on the issue, he later agreed and apologised to me, and l have forgiven him.

After a year, he was seen in an obscure area with another girl and he is back apologising. Should l accept his apology for the second time?

Nancy, Accra.

Dear Nancy,

The repeated actions of your boyfriend shows the sort of person he is and the troubles he will give you as a husband in the future.

His clandestine moves are questionable and should he continue with this kind of behaviour and coming back to apologise, then your heart will probably be troubled if you marry him.

The reason that you are fed up with the relationship should guide you in making up your mind that this marriage will definitely not end well.