Though our parents, guardians and some female teachers  always urge us to preserve our virginity, live acceptable moral  lives, concentrate on our studies, since that is  the most essential thing for us to do, we often put death ears to such appeals  and do what pleases us.

I obeyed this advice until l came into contact with a gentleman who initially behaved as though he had my interest at heart.

He bought dresses for me, half pieces of cloth and promised to sponsor my education to whichever level l desired to reach.

Unknown to me, this man was not genuinely seeking my interest but rather provided the opportunity to have an affair with me and l got pregnant to my surprise.

This development has soiled the trust my parents and loved ones had in me and was responsible for the bad relationship between me and my family.

With this bitter experience, l would like to advice the youth to listen to their parents, guardians and those placed in authority over them. 

Since then, l have never been the same young lady who was surrounded with love and gifts showered on me.

This is my appeal to the youth.

Mary, Accra.

Dear Mary,

It is often said that experience is the best teacher, therefore, having gone through this problem has placed you in the right position to advice the youth. It will be ideal if they listen to you.

The most important thing is that you should not wait for the problem to arise before you think of resolving it.

Be guided by the adage that “a stitch in time, saves nine”.