Each couple fights in a natural way, and it’s healthy and shouldn’t be viewed as detrimental. Arguments are a lot of fun because although there is a commonality between you and you are different and trying to make a living together and so the conflict of opinion will be discussed sooner or later, it’s just the way of life. The point where feelings and emotions come into play is when you can actually end fighting and begin to get healthy in the process. Some couples excel at this while others extend the process further.

Calm yourself down

In the first place, you must draw a deep breath and do not let your anger control your thoughts. If your passion starts to take over, things go downhill fast don’t let it happen. Do your best to remain as peaceful as you can, you’ll be angry and would be tempted to shout at them but, really, do you really want to shout at your loved ones?

Are you going to feel terrible about it after the battle is done? Once spoken, words are not reversible, when we’re angered; we tend not to think about what we say before speaking. Don’t allow your anger to drive the conversation and instead be as calm and calm as you can.

Think about the importance they are to you.

The true beauty of loving someone is the fact that you can cherish them even when you’d like to be angry with them. Love can’t simply die because you don’t get along, real love remains the same and will show its face when the two of you settle down. If I have a disagreement with my girlfriend, I know we get into it but we inform each other of what we feel. After that, we gradually start to calm each other and eventually come back to normal, what is important to keep in mind during disagreements and fights is to remember how much you cherish the person you are fighting  and the importance they hold to you. It’s because that’s the thing that matters at the end of the day.

Don’t forget about the topic.

I’ve met a couple who employ what’s known as”the “ignorance method,” it’s one of the most insane techniques I’ve encountered. The concept is to avoid the conflict simply allow it to “fix itself” and try to (or pretend to) be understanding to each other. It isn’t working that way! Your argument will remain in the air until you sort it out and figure out an answer, but any argument that is not resolved will be sure to come back at you more severely than it has before. Don’t put off the fight Discuss it with your partner and let your partner be honest about your feelings Do not keep it to yourself and you’ll regret it in the future.

To be continued