Dear Obaa Yaa,

Convinced that we love each other and nothing could hold us back from becoming husband and wife, we planned to get married before December this year.

Unfortunately, unexpected quarrels and anger in every matter made it impossible for us to carry out this plan. My lover, for reasons best known to her, changed her attitude and would not compromise in any way.

Despite repeated calls from our friends, she has refused to listen to their plea for an amicable settlement of what the problem was.

After a couple of weeks, a friend informed me that my lover has been going out with another gentleman. This information made me to understand the sudden change in her.

Checks further revealed that my lady had a divided attention, hence her decision to leave me for good.

Though it was heart-rending, l could not do otherwise and had to leave the matter as it had occurred and she went ahead to marry her sweet heart.

After two years in a happy marriage, she surprisingly called me one evening to tell me that she was sorry for leaving me. She, however, concluded that she was not happy and would like to end the marriage and come back to me.

What should l do?

Kwame- Tema.

Dear Kwame,

You have done well by entertaining this former friend of yours, even after she had rendered your heart and went ahead to marry another man.

Do you think she would have called to find out how you fared if things had gone on smoothly in her marriage?

The husband will definitely blame you for breaking his marriage if she dared divorce him and later marries you. His anger will be intensified if he discovers that you were the former boyfriend.

One cannot explain why she took that decision to pick somebody over you, and what has changed this time?

Therefore, if she has decided to back out of the marriage let her carry her problems alone.