She is unwilling to break up with me
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35 years old married man with two children, but two years ago, I befriended a 25-year-old lady.
Before we started our friendship, I explained to her that I was married but she said she was not bothered.
She is very kind, open-minded and possesses the quality every man would look for in a lady.
Our relationship has developed to the extent that she feels lonely and uneasy if she does not see me after a couple of days.
When I suggested to her recently that we should end our relationship because I have discovered that I was wasting her time, she burst in uncontrollable tears.
According to her, she cannot stay without me and that she loves me because of the way I treat her, adding that she always feels comfortable in my arms. She has threatened that if I press further to leave her she would take her life.
Unfortunately, I am not financially sound to cater for two wives.
Please what step should I take?
Sometimes people find it extremely difficult to comprehend issues pertaining to love.
You are frank in putting across your problem for a solution which needs a gradual approach in dealing with it. Since the lady has threatened to take her life, you must treat this information with great caution and the seriousness that it deserves.
Constant dialogue and the desire to calm down tempers will gradually solve the problem and she will take her mind off you.