Some things ladies must avoid

Some things ladies must avoid

You focus too much on getting into a relationship.

Sometimes, you focus too much on the end goal that you fail to pay attention to the process as a whole. And you can’t do that. Instead of focusing on getting into a relationship with a guy, you should focus on establishing a bond and connection with him instead. You need to focus on the process and the results are sure to follow. You just become so desperate for a relationship that your desperation might lead you to do all of the wrong things. And you never want that to be the case.

You turn your relationship with him into the only aspect of your life.

When you do get into a relationship with him, you can’t afford to be giving up your life as a whole. You still have to make sure that you maintain your sense of identity and individuality. If you end up losing yourself and you make the relationship your entire life, you risk having your man feel suffocated. You would be placing too much pressure on your relationship to the point that it breaks.

You willingly let him have everything that he wants.

You shouldn’t be so willing to give a guy everything that he wants. You still need to make sure that you are making him work for your love. You have to make sure that you make him chase after you.  Guys don’t want things to be handed to them on a silver plate. You are going to be able to make him appreciate you more if you actually make him work harder for your love. You have to make him realise that the best things in life never come easily.

You don’t stay emotionally honest.

Always stay honest with your feelings with him. Always stay authentic with him. Always let him know that you’re willing to stay true to who you are whenever you are with him. He isn’t going to want to respond to you if you are only going to be putting upfronts and facades.


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