Some relationship tips you should ignore final

Some relationship tips you should ignore final

No, love is not life. I know this coming from me might sound a little hypocritical, but it’s the truth. Even I don’t believe love means life, love is a part of life, not life itself. To fall in love or to love someone, you need to love yourself completely and your life, your family and friends, you need to be content with yourself and your actions before you can give yourself to someone. Love isn’t the solution to all of your problems. Love supposed to enhance your life, not give it meaning.

Everybody deserves a second chance

This saying, although it is very famous, doesn’t necessarily apply to everyone in this world. Some people hurt others in such a way that they should not be given a second chance or even a shot at a second chance. This tip only applies to those who make small and forgivable mistakes, not to those who destroy you and still keep asking for more. Be very careful with second chances; I almost lost myself while giving a second chance to my ex.

The best way to move on is to be with someone else

I seriously don’t know where people get this stuff from. You simply cannot be with someone else if you’re still hurt and damaged from your breakup if you still think about your ex more than you should if their memories still haunt you in your dreams, how can you even think of being with someone else or someone new when you are so damaged inside? You need the proper time to heal yourself first.

Moving on from a breakup is one of the toughest things in the world, but people eventually get through it, and they come out stronger in the end. Don’t find a rebound, don’t put yourself back in the list of “available and looking” too soon, give yourself time to heal first.

Real couples don’t argue

Real couples don’t argue? Okay, either my girlfriend doesn’t love me, or we aren’t a real couple.  People argue, whenever two different individuals come together, they are bound to have a lot of differences. Arguments and fights are a very reasonable and healthy part of every relationship. It’s a way two people discover each other and find out things about each other that no one else knows about. Arguments are very reasonable and natural, real couples argue.


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