Dear Obaa Yaa,

Am a 36-year-old man in a reputa­ble institution and doing well in my endeavours.

On my way home one day, I met a 27- year- old beautiful lady who is a university student and sex worker.

I gave her a lift and since then I find it difficult to forget about this lady.

Since I have fallen in love with her, I asked her one day why she has decid­ed to be a sex worker.

She explained that she is an orphan and has no one to cater for her so she does it for a living.

I am deeply in love with her. Should I marry her?

Albert, Cantonment.

Dear Albert,

Your case is a dicey one because falling in love is one thing and getting the right person to marry is another.

This is a fifty-fifty case because as a sex worker she might be exposed to many clients for which reason she might have developed an insatiable desire for sex at all times. Therefore when married, she will never be satisfied with sex and this will result in infidelity and related problems.

On the contrary, somebody who has been pushed into sex work because of necessity could change her behaviour when she obtains a stable source of livelihood.

If she will be truly repen­tant and become a changed person for good, then you will experience a successful marriage life.

Should you decide to marry her, then you ought to take your time and study her before you do so.