Dear Obaa Yaa,

l am 27 years old and my wife is 24. We have been in friendship for six years and things went on well. I sponsored her to undergo a- four- year hair dressing apprenticeship after which l organised a grand party to mark the completion of her training.

When she started working, she was full of gratitude to me for facilitating her apprenticeship training throughout the period.  She would close early from work and come to my residence to prepare meals for me.

However, l later discovered that her visits to me were not as frequent as they used to be. When l enquired, she told me that her customers increased daily and that she had a lot of work to do.

Though l was not convinced, l ignored her answer and concluded that l should give her time to change. But the way things are going it is a clear testimony that she has a lover who is taking too much of her time.

Having got the fact that she is having an affair with somebody, l am contemplating telling her to pay the money l have spent on her with interest, else she will be inflicted with a strange disease till she dies.

I think nobody will blame me if l go ahead with my plan.

Kwesi – Mankessim.

Dear Kwesi,

Take it easy and try to forget about the sacrifices and the assistance you have made to make her fully established in life.

You must remember that you have not as yet performed any rites to officially make her become your wife.

I am sure it was not easy raising funds to support her throughout her apprenticeship, yet l would appeal to you to consider all that you have done for her a charitable act which should not attract a reward in return.

I believe you are a Christian and God will not be happy if you cause her to fall sick to serve as punishment for cheating on you.