Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am a 40 -year old married and a business man living at Kasoa. My wife, who is 32-years-old, is very supportive and kindhearted.

The only problem is that she is lazy in bed and that is making me lose interest in her.

My wife complains about any position during sex and keeps telling me that my sex drive is too high.

We have been counselled several times by our pastor and families but still no improvement.

I am worried that I might cheat on her. Please what should I do?

Addo, Kasoa.

Dear Addo,

Sex forms an important part of marriage life and should not be played with. In marriage, if this aspect is not handled well, it results in serious problems.

It is important to note that husbands and wives have individual differences and tastes which they must identify and be tolerant in helping each other to over­come those differences.

Since it is not easy to get a perfect match in marriage, you must work out modali­ties to meet each other half-way in your sex life so that each person will be satisfied.

It is better to accommo­date the shortcomings of your wife than to cheat on her, which will eventually cause the collapse of your family.