Dear ObaaYaa,

I find it interesting reading your column and wish to commend you for the able manner you have responded to letters sent to you.

I am deeply in love with a pretty lady and she also loves me just as l do. We are both happy and wish to get married and live happily.  My friends are always happy when they see us together and support our decision to marry.

It was interesting to see her always around to lend her support in times of difficulties, a gesture l tried to reciprocate. Time without number, we did not hesitate to reaffirm our love for each other.
We were taken by surprise and embarrassed when she got pregnant. Since we were not ready for a child then, l told her to take it easy and keep the pregnancy as we try the best way to handle the problem.

l cited instances of ladies who had caused abortion and could not conceive again. I explained to her that despite the initial mistake we made, she should keep it and that l would not like to be associated with an abortion. Despite my explanation, she still aborted the pregnancy.     
Her behaviour has made me lose interest in her and l have planned not to marry her.

Should l maintain my stand?  
Kodzo, Accra.

Dear Kodzo,
This paper would like to thank you for always reading this column to enrich your knowledge and stay calm.
Reading this column constantly will provide you the opportunity to learn from the numerous problems that confront others and the solutions provided to guide them.
You have espoused the good qualities this lady possessed, and from your description she would be a good wife. 
Why don’t you depend on the love you have for each other, forgive her for defying your orders and let bygones be bygones?