Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am very worried as my fiancé of four years has refused to intro ­duce me to his family.

I have tried so many times to go and see his parents but he says I should hold on.

He is insisting that we are not going to see them until we are ready for marriage.

I don’t understand this idea of his because I feel it would be better to resolve whatever issues or challenges that may arise now instead of waiting for marriage.

I am having second thoughts about this relationship but I seri ­ously cannot afford to let go of four years on investment in time, energy and resources.

I have put so much in this relationship especially as we are nearing preparation for marriage.

I don’t know what to do next. Please I need your advice.

Lordina,

Akosombo

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Dear Lordina,

Your situation is a dicey one and needs to be handled with care. There’s is doubt that you have dedicated four good years of your time, energy, and resources and made a lot of sacrifices for this guy.

Four years is enough time for you to have met his family members, even if it is his mother.

The best thing for you to do at this point is to investigate hi s background and get to know his family members.

It may be that he is hiding something which he is not telling you.

If all your efforts prove futile, it will be better for you to part ways with him though it might not be easy for you.